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For individuals & couples.
Welcome. I’m excited to personally support you in your relationship. You’ll see 3 options below, depending on your current situation & needs.
All 3 options are available to you no matter where you’re based in the world (sessions are over Zoom), personalized to your needs and goals, and suitable for couples & individuals.
To give you an idea of what I can support you in, these are common areas I help my clients with:
- confidently manage doubts, anxiety, insecurities
- effectively navigate reactions that feel out of your control & that create conflict eg. when you’re angry, sad, stressed…
- openly communicate, find solutions to your differences and understand each other’s point of view without fighting
- manage conflict in a way that leaves you feeling like a team, not like enemies
- feel intimately connected, appreciated and loved so that you become each other’s go-to person
- heal after a breakup
- prepare for a new chapter (eg. new relationship, engagement, marriage, moving in, kids, long-distance…)
- recover from past hurt & resentment
- rebuild trust eg. after infidelity
Private Coaching Options*
*each option has a specific timeframe because I believe you don’t have to spend an indefinite amount of time, energy & $$$ to see positive changes in your love life.
ESPRESSO SESSION (90-minute session)
The Espresso Session is a 90-minute session with me that’s like a quick jolt of energy, giving you a burst of insight & clarity.
It’s a convenient way to get practical, personalized guidance on how to handle a current situation in your love life. You can expect to walk away from the call feeling clear, reassured and supported in your next steps.
- 1 session of 90-minutes over Zoom
“I came to get clarity on my emotions and digest an event from an objective perspective. My aha moment was realizing why I was stuck and going in circles & the discovery of my core needs [in order to be satisfied]. [At the end of the session], I felt grounded & empowered, compared to the beginning where I was feeling very confused and as if I was spiraling.” – individual coaching client
“We came to get clarity on our needs, if we can bridge them for each other and if it makes sense for us to get back together or if we’re better off as friends. Our key take-away was discovering what the needs for the other person were and how they can be met. It felt like we had a roadmap to follow, compared to the beginning where we felt lost.” – couples coaching client
“If you have a specific challenge or a situation you want to better understand and get a grip on, I would highly recommend this session. It allows you to get to know yourself and your partner better, gives you tools and insights and specific next steps to tackle the situation.” – individual coaching client
LATTE COACHING (1 month of support)
The Latte Coaching is a 1-month coaching journey with me that’s like sipping a creamy blend of flavors, offering a balanced and nourished experience that leaves you feeling refreshed, energized & confident. You sip it for longer than an espresso, but you can still drink it fairly quickly.
It’s here to provide you with the necessary momentum to help you reach your relationship goals.
This is for you if there’s a specific issue you need immediate support on (eg. you & your partner are potentially breaking up soon and you need to do some damage control, align on next steps…). That’s why you need to see rapid progress in a short time-frame.
- 1 session per week over Zoom (4 sessions total)
- Access to me via messaging in-between sessions
COFFEE DATE COACHING (3 months of support)
The Coffee Date Coaching is a 3-month coaching journey and it’s for you if you don’t just want a quick espresso or a latte but you want the full experience. You want the personalized support from The Espresso Session & the accountability from The Latte Coaching — but for longer, and with some extra customization & access.
This is perfect for you if you’re ready to commit to (re)building certain foundations in your relationship eg. resolve the same cycles of conflict that are disconnecting you, rebuild trust, manage doubts…
It’s like taking the time to go to your favorite coffee shop, ordering your preferred coffee / snack & being there for 3 hours to have a deep, meaningful conversation with someone that has a lasting impact on your life.
You can have the same conversation in 1 hour (that would be the Latte Coaching), however the depths to which you can go are very different (in a 3 hour conversation, you have more space to go deeper into personal challenges, implement strategies and have ongoing support to help you reach your goals).
This is the only option where you receive customized resources, such as an in-depth roadmap designed to leverage your strengths & show you how to navigate challenges based on your communication style, coping mechanisms etc. You also get full access to my library of masterclasses including masterclasses on how to have constructive conversations every time, how to align your needs with your partner, how to navigate doubts & be confident about your future together and more.
- 1 session per week over Zoom (12 sessions total)
- Access to me via messaging in-between sessions
- Access to my full library of masterclasses (5 total)
- Personalized resources
“When we first met I was so scared, hurt, and disempowered. Now, I am more brave, I understand my shadow side more and although I’m still scared for it to get triggered, I am empowered in knowing I can get through it. It’s not about finding someone who doesn’t trigger you but someone you feel safe going through triggers with, and I don’t think I felt safe in the relationship I was originally in and was in immense pain. Now I’d like to think I have a stronger ability to select a partner more in alignment with me and my recently identified needs, wants, boundaries, etc.
It’s 95% of how you show up & 5% of choosing the right partner. Identifying boundaries, needs, wants, etc., identifying everything and assessing: is this person right for me? Identify how you feel versus how others or anything on the outside ‘make you feel’.
Although I lost the relationship I was in when we started our sessions, I learned the true importance of how we literally show up in a relationship. I’ve been making conscious shifts in being what I want to attract, walking the talk, doing the internal work, and identifying patterns of behavior and looking deeper into them, finding ways to heal and manage them to live more freely.
I’m really proud I took accountability. In the pit of my pain, I finally moved from beating myself up and swimming in it, to being accountable (thanks to an exercise we did) and moving forward. I accepted my mistakes and hurtful actions and in silence, I grew.
Alexandra’s works really in the name, she provides you with so many tools to help you navigate your love life and all the trials and tribulations that come with it for our greater growth. I know feedback here would be super helpful but I truly can’t think of a thing that would have made it any better! I enjoyed every bit! 🙂 Thank you so much for everything!
You were a guide for me during a very scary time and have helped me elevate into being a better partner.” – Morgane, Hawaii
What other clients have to say
Nobody has been able to help me deal with my doubts and anxiety the way you have.
– E.D., Europe
I’ve been having epiphanies since we started our sessions (and we’re not even half-way). There have been dramatic differences in my relationship, for the better.
– M.F., USA
It is worth it and that you don’t need to have troubles in your relationship in order to enroll – it can really help improve and elevate even great relationships.
– M.P., Europe
As we grow in relationships it’s good to check-in and find resources that help us be leaders, lovers and good communicators with our partners. Toolbox for Love has opened my eyes to new communication skills but also to how to be a good leader at work.
– S.C., USA
THE ESPRESSO SESSION
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$275
A convenient way to get practical, personalized guidance on how to handle a current situation in your love life.
- 1 session of 90-minutes over Zoom
THE LATTE COACHING
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$1.3k
Ideal if you need immediate guidance on an issue that’s disrupting your relationship & you need to see rapid progress in a short time-frame.
- 1 session per week over Zoom (4 total)
- access to me via messaging in-between sessions
*payment plans available, as of $375/month
THE COFFEE DATE COACHING
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$3.6k
Perfect for you if you’re looking to (re)build certain foundations eg. resolve recurring cycles of conflict, rebuild trust, manage doubts, …
- 1 session per week over Zoom (12 total)
- access to me via messaging in-between sessions
- access to my library of masterclasses (5 total)
- personalized resources
*payment plans available, as of $350/month
Hi, I’m Alexandra, and I’m a life & relationship coach. After living in Switzerland for over a decade, then moving to Singapore for 2 years, I’m now traveling the world as a digital nomad with my husband Denis until we decide to settle.
In the early stages of my soon 16-year relationship, I realized how little we’re actually taught about building solid, healthy, fulfilling partnerships.
I struggled with the same challenges my clients face: feeling incompatible, doubts, loss of trust, miscommunication, recurring conflict, attraction to others, long-distance, almost breaking up… and set out to gather the tools I needed to overcome those challenges.
I’ve since then founded Toolbox for Love LLC. You can find me on Instagram & YouTube @toolboxforlove, where I share educational relationship content to a community of over 100k people & support hundreds of clients through my masterclasses and one-on-one coaching sessions.
I’m a big believer that relationships don’t have to get worse with time and that we each deserve to be in a healthy, fulfilling relationship — yet many of us are not equipped to build & maintain them.
That’s why I’m passionate about sharing what I know and continue to learn to empower others to create the love they deserve.
I have had the pleasure of learning from a variety of industry-leading experts & received the following certifications:
- Life Coach — Robbins Madanes Training Center with Tony Robbins & Cloe Madanes
- Pre-marriage Facilitator — Save Your Marriage Before It Starts with Drs. Les & Leslie Parrot
- Relationship Coach — The Coaching Institute
- Accredited Enneagram Practitioner — iEQ9, Integrative Enneagram Solutions
- Relationship Trauma Informed Coach — Relational Life Therapy Institute with Terry Real (ongoing)
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NEW: The POP-UP Call
Have a current challenge? In this 60-minute call, I help you apply specific tools to get you unstuck. You can expect to leave this call with concrete directions and steps you can take right away.
- Convenience. It's a way for you to get quick access to objective, expert advice.
- Clear action steps. You'll know where to start after just 1 hour together!
- Practical tools. This hour is for YOU so I'll prepare personalized tips.
- Choice. You can join with or without your partner, whichever option you prefer.
Healthy relationships are one of the greatest predictors of happiness and you deserve to be happy!