Constructive Conversations
Learn my signature framework to feel heard & understood when you bring up topics that are important for you to discuss with your partner so that you can have healthy conversations that lead to solutions, not dead-ends.
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2+ hour video & bonus Q&A session recording
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How many of these questions have you ever asked yourself?
“How do I…”:
- safely express what I’m feeling?
- address issues without it turning into a big fight?
- communicate without feeling like I’m walking on eggshells?
- bring up important subjects like the “next step”?
- communicate even if we’re different (solve things vs. cool down first)?
- reduce misunderstandings & conflict?
- feel heard and understood?
- get on the same page?
- feel better after an argument?
This is for you if...
…you’ve been wanting to bring up topics that are important for you to discuss (eg. a concern, your needs, the next step) but you’re not sure how to bring them up without causing conflict and without your partner shutting down or getting defensive.
You don’t want to feel like you are walking on eggshells, building up resentment and leaving issues under the rug because that disconnects you. Not being able to have constructive conversations feels like a threat to your relationship in the future & it worries you.
You want to be able to have open, honest conversations where you feel heard, understood and where you’re able to approach situations as a team so that you can grow together over time, instead of apart.
In this Masterclass, you'll learn how to:
- Start uncomfortable but necessary conversations off from the right foot
- Navigate different ways of arguing & communicating
- Say things without sounding like you’re blaming, hurting or nagging
- Maximize your chances of feeling heard & understood by your partner
- Turn dead-end arguments into productive conversations
- Effectively ask for what you need
- Respond if your partner gets upset despite your efforts
- Eliminate misunderstandings & reduce conflict
- End conversations in ways that bring you & your partner closer, not apart
- Create solutions & agreements that work for both of you
Toolbox for Love has opened my eyes to new communication skills. I am now more confident in how I communicate and understand other’s perspectives when they communicate with me.
– Sarai, California, USA
I have much more tools in hand when I face communication issues. I am also able to express my frustrations more easily.
– Camille, New York, USA
The program helps understand why people argue or miscommunicate and teaches strategies that help refocus the miscommunication.
– Margarita, Virginia, USA
MASTERCLASS
2.5 hour video incl. Q&A, watch at your own pace as soon as you sign up
FAQ
Is it better to watch this with my partner or by myself?
If your partner is open to it, watching this together will be beneficial to both.
Now, if your partner doesn’t seem open to it, I’d watch this first alone and then share your insights with them. That’s also how many of my clients start off because change starts with one person. When one person learns relationship tools and walks the talk, it creates positive ripple effects, shows the other what’s possible, and shifts dynamics (usually very quickly). Please note that my content doesn’t apply to toxic/abusive relationships.
Will an online Masterclass really help me?
If you’re ready to take accountability for your growth and are willing to learn what YOU can do to improve your relationship, it will help you. It won’t help if you’re looking for methods to change your partner. We’re going to look at what’s in your control to shift dynamics, break unhealthy patterns and create stability in your relationship. If growing and being empowered with new tools & skills excites you, this is for you!
Is the content applicable to non-romantic relationships?
Yes! The content applies to any type of relationship (eg. with family, friends, coworkers). I remember a client processing a breakup and applying the tools she learnt at work – she not only improved her relationship with coworkers but also reduced her stress!
I’m already in therapy, will I benefit from this?
Yes! Some of my clients even have their therapist, hire me as their coach, and are taking online courses. The tools you’ll acquire here will help you solidify what you are processing in therapy.
What’s different in this tool than what you share on your Instagram?
In my free content (eg. content on Instagram), I share quick relationship tips and insights but not the tools and strategies that are part of my paid programs (eg. courses, private coaching). You could say that my free content is 5% of my paid content. If you’ve been benefiting from my free content so far, what’s inside my courses will blow your mind! I’ve spent a lot of time, energy and $ learning the tools I’m about to teach you and apply them to my relationship every day and I’m excited to be offering this to you at a fraction of what I invested.
My relationship is pretty new, is this for me?
Yes and by being proactive in learning relationship tools & skills, you’re putting all cards in your favor so that you can set your relationship up for success right from the start! Every relationship has challenges – the sooner you know how to overcome them when they arise, the more trust, connection and love you will create and sustain. It’s how you handle challenges that matters and that’s exactly what you’ll learn here so that you can build a healthy, loving and exciting relationship that’s built to last!
Does this work for same-sex couples too?
Yes of course! Some of my own clients are same-sex couples and they’ve all benefited from the tools I’m teaching you here.
Can I join if I'm single?
Absolutely! What I’ve noticed with my clients who were single is that the tools & skills they learnt helped them understand their past experiences better and feel confident about starting their next relationship from the right foot (or reconnecting with their ex-partner). You can apply the action steps of the course with people around you eg. friends, family, coworkers etc. I’ve seen clients improve their non-romantic relationships many times!
Do you offer refunds?
Given the nature of this service, refunds aren’t offered.
How quickly can I expect to see changes in myself & my relationship?
That will depend on your willingness to put in place the action steps provided throughout the Masterclass. Learning the tools & skills is one thing, applying them is another. The implementation is where the real transformation comes from. Like with anything new you learn, it takes practice until it becomes natural and you’ll have clear guidelines to help you implement what you learn.
Can I join this from anywhere in the world?
Yes of course! That’s the beauty of teaching online and a big reason I created this option for you.
The only exception to this is Singapore. Please note that if you’re currently living in Singapore, my programs are not yet available to you. Head over to this link to receive updates on available services in Singapore. Thanks for your understanding!