Aligning Needs

Practical tools to recognize, communicate and align your needs with your partner so that you can both be fulfilled and happy in your relationship.

This is perfect if you want a loving relationship where everyone’s needs are met, including your own.

Maybe you’re:

in a relationship and having a hard time balancing each other’s needs
or maybe you’re currently on a break because your needs weren’t met so you want to learn how to align them before you consider getting back together
or maybe you’re single and want to learn this skill so that you can attract a healthy relationship

For example, do you…

find it difficult to express what you really want? Or when you do, the outcome isn’t as expected?
try to understand your partner’s needs but don’t feel like you’re getting very far?
find yourself having fights and being distant from each other because you can’t find a middle ground as to how to have both of your needs met?
wonder if you’re a long term match due to your differences and miscommunication?

You’re feeling lost as to what to do next because you’ve already tried different things so it’s turning into frustration, resentment and doubts.

Instead, imagine feeling so loved, connected and content in your relationship because you know how to align your needs and your partner’s needs. You both feel valued and appreciated on a daily basis, have a shared vision for the future and feel confident navigating differences so you’re pouring into the relationship from a full cup.

In Aligning Needs, you’ll learn the strategies and tools to:

Identify your individual needs so that you can be your most authentic self
Identify your partner’s needs so that it’s not a mystery anymore
Have your needs met in sustainable, healthy ways
Communicate your needs effectively & reach agreements
Build sustainable habits so that you not only feel like a team on a day-to-day basis, but also know how to deal with any differences that come up in the future

I’ve seen a more positive attitude in myself and more confidence in my decisions. I’ve understood myself and my partner better and found a better way of communicating my needs and responding to his needs too.

– E.B., USA (in a relationship)

This felt like we had a roadmap to follow, compared to the beginning where we were feeling lost.

– N & D., Europe (on a break, looking to get back together)

When we first met I was so scared, hurt, and disempowered. Now I have a stronger ability to select a partner more in alignment with me and my recently identified needs, wants, boundaries, etc.

– Morgan, Hawaii (single)

FAQ

Is it better to watch this with my partner or by myself?

If your partner is open to it, watching this together will be beneficial to both.

Now, if your partner doesn’t seem open to it, I’d watch this first alone and then share your insights with them. That’s also how many of my clients start off because change starts with one person. When one person learns relationship tools and walks the talk, it creates positive ripple effects, shows the other what’s possible, and shifts dynamics (usually very quickly). Please note that my content doesn’t apply to toxic/abusive relationships.

Will an online course really help me?

If you’re ready to take accountability for your growth and are willing to learn what YOU can do to improve your relationship, it will help you. It won’t help if you’re looking for methods to change your partner. We’re going to look at what’s in your control to shift dynamics, break unhealthy patterns and create stability in your relationship. If growing and being empowered with new tools & skills excites you, this is for you!

Is the content applicable to non-romantic relationships?

Yes! The content applies to any type of relationship (eg. with family, friends, coworkers). I remember a client processing a breakup and applying the tools she learnt at work – she not only improved her relationship with coworkers but also reduced her stress!

I’m already in therapy, will I benefit from this?

Yes! Some of my clients even have their therapist, hire me as their coach, and are taking online courses. The tools you’ll acquire here will help you solidify what you are processing in therapy.

What’s different here than what you share on your Instagram?

In my free content (eg. content on Instagram), I share quick relationship tips and insights but not the tools and strategies that are part of my paid programs (eg. courses, private coaching). You could say that my free content is 5% of my paid content. If you’ve been benefiting from my free content so far, what’s inside my courses will blow your mind! I’ve spent a lot of time, energy and $ learning the tools I’m about to teach you and apply them to my relationship every day and I’m excited to be offering this to you at a fraction of what I invested.

My relationship is pretty new, is this for me?

Yes and by being proactive in learning relationship tools & skills, you’re putting all cards in your favor so that you can set your relationship up for success right from the start! Every relationship has challenges – the sooner you know how to overcome them when they arise, the more trust, connection and love you will create and sustain. It’s how you handle challenges that matters and that’s exactly what you’ll learn here so that you can build a healthy, loving and exciting relationship that’s built to last!

Does this work for same-sex couples too?

Yes of course! Some of my own clients are same-sex couples and they’ve all benefited from the tools I’m teaching you here.

Can I join if I'm single?

Absolutely! What I’ve noticed with my clients who were single is that the tools & skills they learnt helped them understand their past experiences better and feel confident about starting their next relationship from the right foot (or reconnecting with their ex-partner). You can apply the action steps of the course with people around you eg. friends, family, coworkers etc. I’ve seen clients improve their non-romantic relationships many times!

Do you offer refunds?

Given the nature of this service, refunds aren’t offered.

How quickly can I expect to see changes in myself & my relationship?

That will depend on your willingness to put in place the action steps provided throughout the course. Learning the tools & skills is one thing, applying them is another. The implementation is where the real transformation comes from. Like with anything new you learn, it takes practice until it becomes natural and you’ll have clear guidelines to help you implement what you learn.

Can I join this from anywhere in the world?

Yes of course! That’s the beauty of teaching online and a big reason I created this option for you.