Toolbox for Love

The place to create the most stable & loving relationship you could have.

We're taking the guesswork out of your relationship.

You deserve to know exactly how to build a secure, exciting relationship that's built to last - it's not something we naturally learn how to do. I've created the Toolbox experience for you, with different "relationship tools" that will help you navigate the ups & downs of your relationship with ease, become a strong team with your partner and feel confident about your future together.

Hi, I'm Alexandra!

When I started dating my partner Denis back in 2008, our relationship was going great but a few years later, we struggled with the same challenges my clients face: feeling incompatible, miscommunication, doubts, attraction to others, … Plus, we went through 4+ years of long-distance.

We almost broke up twice even if we loved each other and wanted things to work out. Looking back, it was because we didn’t have the right support to get us through our challenges.

After years of trial & error, I started my journey to discover the tools that would help us bridge our differences, create a healthy, happy relationship and feel confident about our future together (this picture is us getting married in 2021).

I always wished others knew about the tools that helped me overcome recurring challenges with my partner. I’m honoured to teach you how to create a healthy, fulfilling relationship so that you can feel secure and at peace.

Client success stories

It’s amazing, I’ve been practicing all your advice and I really appreciate them. They helped me to understand how to be more connected with my partner, thank you.

– M.K, Europe

Feeling more hopeful and supported in this relationship journey. I’m relieved to learn that it’s “normal” and I’m not alone in experiencing these challenges, and that there are resources available to help.

– G.T., Asia

I feel so lucky and blessed to have met you and thankful I stumbled across your Instagram. I don’t even know if we would still be together with my partner to be honest. We were definitely going through some really rough, rocky patches.

– J.T., USA

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Healthy relationships are one of the greatest predictors of happiness, yet we aren’t taught how to create them. Grateful you’re here.